How To Make Life Dreams Come True

Make life dreams come true.”

How can you make your aspirations happen?

That’s what my dad said. But I realized the importance of dreaming after quite some time. Now I know that to realize aspirations, patience, and sacrifice are key plus a strong foundation. One of my tips to get you started would be to create a plan of action. I wish you, too, could realize and accomplish your goals for real. Make life goals come true.

I used to hang out with the wrong kind of teenagers. You know, they were the kids you would see at the back of a building, bullying someone.

That part of my journey started during middle school. I was tired of being on the receiving end of bullying, so I decided to join the bullies. I did not account for the fact that I had to become one of them if I did not want to get kicked out of the group. That was it for me back then. I had no big, incredible ideals, didn’t have a positive perspective, didn’t make positive goals, and didn’t even think of my future as well.

Making life dreams come true

In my past, I began drinking at the age of 15. I initially tried to refuse because no one drank alcoholic beverages in the family, and I did not want to get caught by my mom. However, they said that they wouldn’t talk to me again if I said no.

I hated the taste of alcohol every time, but I kept drinking when they told me to keep drinking. It took me a while to recognize that what we had didn’t represent successful relationships between friends. My life was haywire, and I felt that nothing good was going to come true with my aspirations if I maintained my friendship with them.

Turning Point

So when did I realize I had to make life dreams come true?

The turning point happened on my 18th birthday. My friends called me to say that they had a surprise for me. Of course, I was excited, so I went to the mall as instructed. When I arrived, they told me to pick three items that I wanted, and they would get them as my presents. I chose a bag, a belt, and a pair of pants.

But when we were on our way to the cashier, they veered to the left and went straight to the exit — with the unpaid items. My friends got apprehended at once. I thought I was already saved, but then one of them pointed at me. Another pair of guards appeared behind me and directed me to their office. I thought, “What a life! Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that to happen!” Suddenly, reality hits me, and I feel like my world will fall apart after what happened.

Even if I did not plan that shoplifting, I was still an accessory to the crime, and I was so guilty about it. Besides, I felt the need to get out of the group before they could begin to ruin my aspirations. My family would undoubtedly know about my wrongdoings anyway.

When the police came and informed us that the mall administration wanted to press charges and be prosecuted as adults, I pled guilty. This was a part of my life when nothing was going my way, not even my dreams were visible. Mine were like the other’s visions which were most definitely not going to come true.

A hand with a written word "yes"

I was already spacing out as I assumed the Judge was about to adjourn the hearing when I heard my mom gasp and cry loudly behind Me. Then, my lawyer grasped my hand to congratulate me, increasing my confusion.

“What’s happening?” I asked.

The lawyer smiled at me. “The Judge practically wants to give you a second shot in life, perhaps to make your life objectives come true. Instead of giving you jail time, you only need to do community service and promise to attend counseling sessions.”

Getting Counseling

The first thing I did was work with the counselor that law enforcement provided and make a connection. I had no idea what it was initially, but the mental health professional allowed me to see that I got sucked into that dark side due to my insecurities. He helped me work through as many of them as possible. The process was not easy, but it was definitely worth it. The counselor let the judge know in the end that I was already good to go. I was ready to focus on fulfilling my ideals and desires and hopes to make them all come true.


Since the relationship with my parents was not okay, and I didn’t receive emotional support, they are still upset about the pain and humiliation I caused them; they refused to pay for my college tuition. They did not offer empathy and respect.  I understood them, so I asked the counselor if I could do any work at his office. From being a part-time janitor, I became his part-time assistant for two years.

When I had the chance to go to college, I decided to study psychology. It felt so right to do that; it was a desire that I never knew I had. Who knew that I would be one of the Psychology and counseling professionals?

We must keep going no matter what otherwise if we don’t, we will never learn what we have overcome and left behind, and we will never know how strong we really are.

12 Years Later

I found myself standing in front of the same Judge who gave me a life-changing verdict 12 years ago. This time, though, I was already a 30-year-old man with a Ph.D. in psychology and a certification in counseling. More importantly, I came as a friend, not as a defendant.

I saw how the Judge’s eyes widened when he recognized the person in front of him. Then, his surprised look turned into something that resembled pride and admiration, like my success had a shared meaning between us.

“Sorry it took so long before I could fulfill my promise, sir,” I said, grinning.

“No, you are just right on time,” the Judge replied. “What are you doing with your life now?” An answer was expected.

“Well, I just passed my licensure exams. I’m a licensed psychologist and certified counselor now. To thank you for all you did for me, I’d love to offer my services to juvenile defendants.”

I'd love to offer my services

The Judge shook my hand firmly. “Say no more, child. You’re hired!” he announced.

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